Feeling Out of Place?
I’ve been there …. And I know most people have experienced this in one way or another, whether in a personal or professional setting. That uncomfortable feeling of not quite belonging, like trying to squeeze into a space too small for you. It can be frustrating, confusing, and sometimes, even painful. But what if that feeling isn’t about you? What if it’s the environment or the path you’re on that’s simply not the right one?
Jim Rohn, an American entrepreneur and author, once said:
“If you are not willing to risk the usual, you will have to settle for the ordinary.”
Why Do Some Fit Effortlessly?
Have you ever wondered how a bird or even a squirrel can walk on high-tension power lines, perfectly balanced, and in no danger, but when you try something similar, without the proper protective gear, it becomes a fatal venture?
How are fish able to breathe in water, but you can’t without the proper gear?
It’s not about ability — it’s about the environment being suited to their unique design and skills.
Just like them, you need to find your own “power line,” the space where you can walk confidently and thrive, with the thought that it’s made for you.
The Right Environment Lets You Thrive
Does the perfect environment truly exist? Consider a plant: regardless of the amount of water and care it receives, if the soil isn’t suited, it won’t thrive. The same principle applies to us. When you discover an environment that appreciates your strengths, honours your values, and appropriately challenges you, that’s where your real growth occurs.
“Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher.” — Oprah Winfrey
Courage to Change Course
It all starts with you! Leaving behind what’s familiar, even if it’s uncomfortable or otherwise, takes courage. But staying stuck in the wrong place only dims your light. It’s okay to pause, reflect, and adjust your approach. Your true path is the one where your talents and passions align.
“Your work is to discover your world and then with all your heart give yourself to it.” — Buddha
Keep Searching and Trust the Journey
It’s never a one-step journey. It’s a continuous learning and discovery path. You don’t have to have it all figured out now… or even tomorrow.
Trust that the right place is out there, waiting for you to find it. Sometimes the struggle to fit is a signpost pointing you toward a better fit … one that will let you shine.
A quote from an unknown person struck me:
“Sometimes you have to step outside of the person you’ve been and remember the person you were meant to be.”
A Personal Note
Sometimes you have to understand that it isn’t about your effort — it was about fit. Making the change isn’t easy, but think about water — stagnant water becomes dirty, but flowing, ever-changing water stays fresh and full of life. If you’re feeling that inner struggle, remember: it’s not a failure… it never is! It’s a signal.
Take the first step today — whether it’s exploring new opportunities, talking to a mentor, or simply permitting yourself to change. Your right fit is out there. You just have to find it.
By Loctovia.
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